Consider the cliché in most movies and TV productions where a man meets a woman at a bar, he buys her a drink, they talk, they laugh, they discover they are both into each other, and then they get a room and sleep together. The above scene is so common that if it were to go any other way, it would be quite surprising. However, in real-life, so many factors have to be just right before a man wakes up in the morning with his girlfriend, crush, or even ‘new friend’ sleeping next to him. Although it is common to find women turning down offers that will lead to them waking up next to a man they don’t know in the morning, it is not always the case.
It might surprise you to know that most men will also turn down an
offer to sleep with a woman when they discover a few things about them.
Some of the things below are discoveries that men make about women as
soon as they meet them, while others are things that they discover over
time. The first-time discoveries are the easiest to get away
from because there is little relationship involved. The discoveries that
a man will make after a few weeks or months are complicated because by
this time a relationship has had a chance to develop. However, whether
in a relationship or not, a man will not want to sleep with a woman if
she has any or a combination of the following:
10. She Has Bad Breath
It is going to be so hard for a man to sleep with his woman if she
smells as if something died in her mouth. You cannot expect to go a few
days without interacting with a toothbrush and some toothpaste, and
think that you can just turn your man on. Furthermore, how your mouth
smells speaks tons about how matters of hygiene are important to you,
and what type of a person you generally are.
9. She’s Too Clingy
Men love to walk around
holding their women, as they show them off to their friends and even
strangers in the streets. However, it is very important to understand
that a man also needs to be with his friends, and this does not mean
that he loves you any less. An extremely clingy woman is one who will
keep calling her man trying to find out where he is and who he is with.
She wants to spend every minute of every day with her man next to her.
8. She Has An Annoying Voice
This might sound a bit
unfair, but it is sadly true. Every man imagines going out with a woman
who has an angel’s voice, because even the sound of such a voice is
enough to turn him on. However, the women whose voices screech when they
talk, women who are too loud when they speak, and those whose voices
are deeper and more commanding than most men’s might have a harder time
getting men to sleep with them compared to women with angelic voices.
7. She Drinks Too Much
One funny thing about most
men is that they don’t mind meeting women in bars or nightclubs, but
they will not like it if the women they are after are heavy drinkers.
Here is how a man sees it; a woman who drinks too much is most probably a
loose canon with no self-control, who has slept with very many men, and
is therefore not an ideal option. Furthermore, a woman deserving
respect never drinks too much; excessive drinking is a sign of
immaturity.
6. She Has Poor Taste
A man loves to go out with a
woman who has great taste, because her great taste will make him look
good. A classy woman will always make her man proud, and a man will do
anything for a woman who makes him proud. Therefore, a woman has to be
attractive to the man even in aspects such as the music she listens to,
the movies she loves to watch, and even the food she loves to eat.
5. She Seems Too Easy
It is so funny how every man out there believes that he has the
smoothest pick-up lines and that when he is on his ‘A’ game no woman can
resist him. The truth is that most women feel sorry for the men hitting
on them, and only tolerate them if they are actually sweet, funny, or
have the potential to be the love of their lives. However, men are
always cautious when it comes to women who are too easy. More often than
not, the easiest women out there are those who have slept with numerous
men and such women are often loose. No man wants to sleep with a woman
who has no sense of self-respect; besides, even the men enjoy the thrill
of chasing after a woman that they fancy.
4. She’s a Drama Queen
No one really likes a drama queen, so why should a man want to sleep
with one? A drama queen is too dramatic about the smallest things, and
this behavior annoys men so much. Most drama queens are just out to seek
attention and try to prove that they matter. A drama queen often
intentionally or instinctively acts immaturely and childishly, probably
because she did not receive as much attention growing up as she craved.
3. She’s Impossible to Please
When a man says something
to, or does something for the woman that he loves and she gets all
excited, the man feels like he has conquered the world. A woman’s
reaction to even the smallest things that a man does is very important,
because her reaction is an indication that she realizes that her man has
been thinking about her and he values her. However, those women who
hardly recognize the effort that a man is making or those who express
dissatisfaction in a man’s efforts to please them make a man feel
unappreciated and discouraged. A man feeling unappreciated and
discouraged is not willing to sleep with you now or any time in the near
future.
2. She Seems to Be a Gold Digger
A woman who is with a man just because of his money is one of the
worst kinds of people out there. Men will try their level best to
identify and avoid sleeping with gold diggers, because such women will
trap them in a relationship and start draining their bank accounts.
1. She Constantly Talks About Her Ex
A woman who only speaks
about her ex, whether in good or bad light is killing her man’s desire
to sleep with her. Talking about your ex is a sign that you are not
completely over him and that you might be with your current man just out
of convenience. A man needs to know that you belong to him completely,
and if that is established then everything else will work out perfectly.
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